The Quality of Your Life is a Direct Reflection of the Quality of Your Relationships. 

Are you seeking improved communication, greater intimacy, less conflict and more connection in your relationship?
 

We know through studies and experience that relationships are central to our health and well-being. Yet, while we have been prepared for other important facets of our lives we have not, until now, received the tools and skills for maneuvering through the process of partnership.

“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.”

~Sam Keen, To Love and Be Loved

You Will Benefit from Relationship Coaching if:

 

 

  • Like most couples you began your relationship with high hopes for a fulfilling, exciting and happy partnership, but something has changed.
  • You used to talk all the time but now hardly speak at all.
  • You have the same argument over and over again yet never resolve the issue.
  • Fires ignited whenever the two of you were near but now it seem as if the sparks have disappeared.
  • You used to make plans now can’t agree on anything.
  • You couldn’t wait to have children but now they are caught in the middle of an unhappy home.
  • Once you thought you could heal and complete each other but unrealistic or unspoken expectations have led to despair.
  • There was a time you found safety in each others’ arms, now there is mistrust over affairs, betrayals, addictions, silence, or emotional withdrawal.
  • Merging two families seemed ideal but now there is only conflict and ill will.

Don’t wait for the problems to go away or expect love to conquer all. 

That hasn’t worked so far, has it? Most likely the conflicts have grown larger and more frequent while the gulf between you widens.
Or, you may be thinking it will be better next time around.

 But, if you do nothing you will just bring the same level of self-awareness and undeveloped set of relationship skills to your next relationship. Then the likelihood is great that you will repeat the same mistakes. We’ve all heard the old adage, “Different place, different face, same mistakes.”

You need a qualified, experienced relationship expert who will teach you that love can flourish and your relationship will grow into an Intimate Partnership when you know how to:

  • Navigate the natural and inevitable changes and stages of relationships
  • Be there for each others’ needs; physical, functional, emotional and sexual, and experience the deep connection that results
  • Dissolve the layers of reactivity that stand in the way of passion and connection.
  • Create a sanctuary in each other where you can seek comfort, support and joy
  • Get back to being playful
  • Develop a mutual and comprehensive relationship vision
  • Listen to one another with your heart
  • Speak from your authentic center
  • Make clear and reasonable requests that give needed information
  • Respect your partners timing and choices
  • Balance work, partnership and parenting
  • Capture and Preserve that initial spark and passion
  • Develop a profound mutual contentment that deepens over the years
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My coaching approach caringly teaches you relationship skills through interesting exercises, emotional intelligence and relationship skills education, reflective listening and guided practice. You will learn, either individually or as a couple, to resolve conflict, restore harmony and become your partners’ best friend. As I show you how to deepen trust, affirm commitment, and align your relationship vision what seemed lost is restored as love and passion are enhanced.